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29/03/2021

Successful people have two things on their lips, “smile and silence”. Smile can solve problem while Silence can avoid problems. Sugar and salt may be mixed together but ants reject the salt and carry away only the sugar. Select the right people in life and make your life better and sweeter. If you fail to achieve your dreams, change your ways not your God. Remember, trees change their leaves and not their roots. You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones to every dog that barks. Haters will see you walking on water and say its because you can’t swim. Even if you dance on water, your enemies will accuse you of raising dust. Make it your ambition to live a quiet life, to mind your own business and to work with your own hands. Remember, don’t ever wrestle with a pig. You will both get dirty, but the pig will enjoy it.

25/03/2021

Back in business

01/03/2021

No matter what you are going through or your present situation or circumstance, just remember this: GOD HAS NOT FORGOTTEN YOU. He is with and always shall be with you. He is the same yesterday, today and forever. He never changes. Good morning and happy new month

24/02/2021

If nature made you a giver, your hands are born open, and so is your heart. And though there may be times when your hands are empty, your heart is always full, and you can give things out of that.

10/01/2021

*POSSIBLE WAYS TO AVOID EMBARRASSMENT AND UNNECESSARY PRESSURE IN (2021).*

1. Put your kids in schools you can afford because expensive schools don't guarantee good results. Just ensure they attend a good affordable school

2. Rent apartments you can pay for conveniently. Don’t live in a house you struggle to pay yearly. If your 1 to 6 months salary or biz profit can't pay for your accommodation, that accommodation is not for your level.

3. A man whose wife is pregnant has good 9 months to prepare, same as the pregnant woman in question. They should even plan for the worse and only seek help when they can’t meet up.

4. Some problems in our lives don’t just pop up, if you don't own a home, we knew we would pay rent, So its not an emergency.

5. Let’s plan our lives and live within our means. Save more and spend less and Invest wisely. Never invest in something that will make you rich overnight. No seed grows to a tree overnight and provide fruits, not even tomatoes

6. Some women buy food for their children every morning before going to school or even for the whole family, do you know it’s cheaper to cook at home?

7. Some people don’t earn much, but have DSTV at home, go for GOTV and upgrade when your income upgrades. It’s still the same CNN anyway! Besides, most people pay for cable subscription they don't have light or time to watch.

8. Eat healthy meals and protect your family from mosquitoes to avoid going to the hospital always. Sleep under mosquito treated net, saves you cost of treatment on malaria.

9. Take advantage of food and fruits in season, its cheaper and you can be creative to create amazing meals. Every fruit in each season is meant to help your body fight sickness or health challenges in that season.

10.Don’t copy your neighbor’s lifestyle, she earns well and her husband is a ‘big man’

11. Don’t follow trends, wear clean well-ironed clothes and keep your hair neat. You would still look good.

12. Keep your circle small, keep onl friends that have senses!

13. Above all things, have the fear of God, have integrity, don’t be lazy and be prayerful.

14. Planning is the key, if you fail to plan, you plan to FAIL.

15. Don't do more than your budget, there is no award given to best family that wore an expensive cloth for the year

16.Don't be in competition with anyone. The purpose of shoes and clothes are to cover our nakedness, make us smart and good.

17. Don't make your marriage ceremony too expensive, there is life after marriage and your well wishers will only say goodbye and the reality of life will then done on you. Be wise!

24/12/2020

END OF YEAR APOLOGY

1. Those who think I am not friendly.... I apologize! Pls forgive me.

2.Those who think I have ignored them... I apologize. Pls forgive me.

3.Those who felt offended by my attitude or character.... I apologize. Pls forgive me.

4. Those who my posts offended their sensibilities. They should continue to forgive me pls.

5. Those that I didn’t reply to their chat. Pls forgive me, it wasn’t deliberate, maybe I was too busy.

6. Those guys that send me fake messages wanting me to E-mail them, I beg them not to continue in that line next year.

7. Those who I didn’t visit or call during this year.... I apologize. Pls forgive me.

8. Those who I hurt by words or action... I apologize. Pls forgive me.

9. Those whose promises I didn’t fulfil..... I apologize, Pls forgive me.

10. Those who felt I am too serious and not friendly.. I apologized. Probably am phlegmatic.

11. All my male friends, I love you all..I hope that your attitude will still keep you as my friends

Compliment of the season

15/12/2020

Stay strong. Never give up. Sometimes when you feel like you can't go on anymore and you just want to give up, pray. keep your head up. Good morning

09/12/2020

07/12/2020

Lord, it’s Monday.
It’s not everyone’s favourite day;.
Back to work,
Back to all the chores.
Yet each day is a gift,
Each day is an opportunity.
Each day is special.
Help me to make the most of this day.
Help me in my work,
Help me in my relationships.
May you be glorified in my life,
This and every day.
Amen

“Morning by morning, O Lord, I lay my requests before you, and wait in expectation.”

03/12/2020

SIGNS YOUR MARRIAGE MAY BE HEADED FOR TROUBLE...

1. YOU NEVER COMMUNICATE: Talk. Check in with each other regularly. Be sure to say what’s wrong, but also what’s right with the relationship. Discuss what to do to make you both happy. If you’re having trouble communicating, you must work on this. Communication is of the most important in a relationship.

2. YOU ARGUE ALL THE TIME: No one wants to fight all the time. It just takes all the fun and joy out of your relationship. It also can make you both bitter and angry. Pick your battles carefully. There are ways to disagree, so that you are respectful and you both hear each other out. Also, you can learn to agree to disagree on certain topics. This is life, you won’t agree on everything, but be respectful of one another.

3. YOU CONSTANTLY SPEND MORE THAN YOU MAKE: Making money mistakes - failing to get out of debt, spending what you don’t have, or making poor investments is cause for more arguing and sometimes a break down of communication...

4. YOU STOP PURSUING ONE ANOTHER: By far, one of the easiest ways for couples to kill their marriage is when they stop pursuing one another. Your goal everyday should be to work just as hard to keep your spouse as you did to win him/her in the first place. Never get comfortable in your marriage by just thinking, “I don’t have to work at it, everything will be fine on its own.”

5. YOU NEVER HAVE S*X: A marriage without s*x can definitely wither and die, especially if one of the people in the marriage is unhappy about this. S*x is what separates the marriage relationship from other relationships you have. It reinforces feelings of love, brings greater intimacy, and it’s God’s gift to marriage. Relationships certainly can survive without s*x. Some older couples stop having s*x after either the husband or wife suffers some illness or is unable to have s*x and that’s all right but if you are both healthy, and the s*x stops because of a lack of desire, you need to address the issue, especially if one of you would like to have s*x. Because talking about s*x can make some people uncomfortable, they fail to speak up if they have a problem with their s*x life. Again, you need to communicate, even about things that might not be easy to talk about

14/09/2020

FORGIVE:

I always tell myself that when you live your life without anyone hurting, disappointing, disgracing or offending you, then it means you never did anything worthy. The beauty of life is that it comes with disappointments and offences from people you least expect. Unfortunately, some of us spend so much time on the disappointments and offences and end up becoming victims of all circumstances.

Remember this one thing always: Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.

The fact is that the world is full of annoying, naughty and ungrateful people. You will always come across them during the gentle stroll of your life span; but the best thing to do is to deal with them with love and maturity;
You can’t get everyone to behave like you....Never!!!

Hatred and intolerance have caused many of the world's problems and have solved none of them; We must learn to tolerate and forgive one another; We must bury the faults of others and move on with life.

As you read this piece, I beseech you to take the pain and forgive that special person you have grudges with and iron out your grievances. Muster the courage and apologise to that person you have offended. The clock is ticking, We are ageing; Grave is calling and we are not in charge.

Life is short, you don't know how much time you have left; Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away.

Tolerate and forgive others.... the only choice!

Good morning